{"id":1628,"date":"2010-09-23T13:48:14","date_gmt":"2010-09-23T17:48:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shieldsgroup.com\/?p=1628"},"modified":"2010-09-24T11:43:13","modified_gmt":"2010-09-24T15:43:13","slug":"the-gap-between-who-you-think-you-are-and-who-you-really-are","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/2010\/09\/23\/the-gap-between-who-you-think-you-are-and-who-you-really-are\/","title":{"rendered":"The Gap Between who you THINK you are and who you REALLY are&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Each of us faces a gap at different times in our life.<\/strong> It\u2019s just part of being human.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/mindthegap.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/mindthegap-225x300.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" alt=\"\" title=\"A Mind the Gap Poster in the UK to remind people to be aware of the gap between the train and the platform. Minding the gap in your personal life is equally important.\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1631\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/mindthegap.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/mindthegap.jpg?w=400&amp;ssl=1 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a>I remember when I used to be able to walk any hill around and never get winded. I\u2019m not saying I am older and out of shape. I am just saying that I am finally old enough to see the importance of taking a good long rest at the end of a big hill-climb.\u00a0 And maybe a couple rests in the middle of such climbs. There\u2019s a gap between how I see myself \u2014 25 years of age, and how I really am \u2014 nearly twice that.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There\u2019s another place you often see a gap. <\/strong>It\u2019s the gap between how you see yourself in terms of morality and how you really are, morally.  I think that often, those who are caught in a sexual compromise are people who saw themselves as being above temptation. Then when the chance came along, they learned of the gap between who they thought they were and who they were.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Everyone who is a Christian has seen the gap<\/strong>. We\u2019ve seen that we are not good, moral people who are better than others. And coming to terms with that reality, we\u2019ve repented of our pride and other sins. And we\u2019ve turned to Jesus, asking him to forgive us. That\u2019s the most basic way there is to mind the gap: To admit you\u2019re not, ethically speaking, who you need to be. And to see that Jesus died to forgive you and transform you into who you need to become.<\/p>\n<p>This gap between who we think we are, morally, and who we really are, morally is the gap Jesus speaks of in the passage this sermon springs from.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You can listen to it below.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"powerpress_player\" id=\"powerpress_player_6573\"><audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-1628-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"http:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/mp3s\/amq\/2010\/matthew\/20100919Woe7MindTheGap.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/mp3s\/amq\/2010\/matthew\/20100919Woe7MindTheGap.mp3\">http:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/mp3s\/amq\/2010\/matthew\/20100919Woe7MindTheGap.mp3<\/a><\/audio><\/div><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_links_mp3\" style=\"margin-bottom: 1px !important;\">Podcast: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/mp3s\/amq\/2010\/matthew\/20100919Woe7MindTheGap.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_pinw\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Play in new window\" onclick=\"return powerpress_pinw('https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/?powerpress_pinw=1628-podcast');\" rel=\"nofollow\">Play in new window<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/mp3s\/amq\/2010\/matthew\/20100919Woe7MindTheGap.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_d\" title=\"Download\" rel=\"nofollow\" download=\"20100919Woe7MindTheGap.mp3\">Download<\/a><\/p><!--powerpress_player-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Each of us faces a gap at different times in our life. It\u2019s just part of being human. I remember when I used to be able to walk any hill around and never get winded. I\u2019m not saying I am &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/2010\/09\/23\/the-gap-between-who-you-think-you-are-and-who-you-really-are\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,9,1],"tags":[223],"class_list":["post-1628","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-godly-living","category-sermon-podcasts","category-spiritual-life","tag-holiness"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p9XvmV-qg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1628","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1628"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1628\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1628"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1628"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shieldsgroup.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1628"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}